I used to really believe in LOVE. But...how many people know exactly what is the meaning of LOVE??
Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction(wikipedia)
When people start out dating, they usually try their best to win the other’s affection and be the object of his/her affection. This goes on for a while until you get what you want. Then the spontaneity is gone. Loving him/her is now a chore. The relationship becomes cold and sour. Fatal mistake. Personally, men lame excuses make me growl inside.
LOVE is not a random event that strikes when we least expect it. But actually can be formulated. Every person has a formula of what their perfect person is so when two persons meet, they look for matches or possible equations, and when two people match each other’s formula’s, a deep bond will form.
Here are examples:
Girl: LOVE = Cute + In shape + Money + Stylo + Good Personality + Funny
Guy: LOVE = Beautiful Face + Hot Body + Straight to the point + Good Conversation + Hot Sex
LOVE is lost in time. Unless you do something. If LOVE is based on logic and the logical formula is that when you stop loving someone that person will stop loving you too. Romantic feelings are like fire - easy to start under right circumstances, but hard to maintain in the long term. If you are in a relationship and want to keep it strong, think of what you and your partner need, talk it over, don’t stop giving. As long as you match your partner’s LOVE formula, LOVE comes naturally.